Sunday, June 1, 2014

The Power of Hope

(I was recently asked to write a "Sanctuary Moment" note for our health system's intranet, as my chaplaincy colleague in a larger facility was on vacation. They usually write a weekly post, published in several of our facilities, with links to other resources as well. I did get some feedback from colleagues in several places that they appreciated these thoughts, so I decided to post this entry here as well.)

Sanctuary Moment for 05-15-14
“The Power of Hope”

“Hope is a state of mind, not of the world. Hope, in this deep and powerful sense, is not the same as joy that things are going well, or willingness to invest in enterprises that are obviously heading for success, but rather an ability to work for something because it is good.”
Vaclav Havel

What do you hope for? When I approach the weekend, I hope for good weather and the opportunity to spend time with family and friends. Early in the morning, I hope for a good day at work and the opportunity to make a difference in the lives of patients, families and colleagues. I personally hope for a rewarding career, good health, and intimacy with God and others.

We meet patients and families each day, in hospitals and outpatient settings, who hope for good test results and speedy recoveries. Some of these situations will have positive outcomes. Over my career in healthcare chaplaincy, I have had the good fortune to celebrate with more patients and families than I can count. Whether it is a parent taking a newborn home after a NICU stay, a grandmother returning home following successful cardiac surgery, or a teenage boy returning to school after an appendectomy, these shared experiences can give us renewed hope and raise our spirits. Many of us have also walked alongside people facing harder circumstances. Perhaps you have cared for a mother with young children and a terminal diagnosis, or have witnessed the shock of families trying to make sense of sudden loss following a car crash. Although it can be rewarding to offer care and support in these moments, we might feel hopeless at times.

The current state of healthcare also induces stress and uncertainty. Will my position be here next week or next year? What about the patient volumes in the unit you manage? What impact will the budget process have on the resources I am accustomed to utilizing to perform my work? In my experience, in order to thrive we also have to adapt to change. Few of us now report to the manager or director we met during the hiring process.

Whether we are sharing the joys and pains of patients and families, or facing other job-related stressors, I am convinced that each of us is responsible to develop and nurture a hopeful spirit. Life is a gift to be celebrated and shared. Careful reflection on Havel’s words above tells me that hope is not dependent solely on achieving the outcome I would like in a specific situation, but rather appreciating the value of meaningful work and significant relationships. I invite you to identify what is “good” in your life and work, and invest your time and energy in these things. I believe this is one source of a consistently hopeful spirit for each of us.

A prayer for hope:  Alone, we do not have the resources to meet the challenges of this day, nor the strength to accomplish the necessary tasks of caring for all those we meet. It is easy to become overwhelmed, fearful, and anxious. Help us find beauty in each moment, and give us peace which is not based on instantaneous results. May we find hope that endures.  Amen.

Here are two songs about hope (the first is techno, the second a Gaither hymn, possibly following advertisements):